Come As You Are


An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science—that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.

“We’re all different and that’s perfectly normal….all the same parts organized differently~no two alike.”  A must read for every woman and every body!

7 Sex Education Lessons From ‘Come As You Are’ you will learn:

  • 1. There’s a very wide range of women’s sexual normalcy
  • 2. There’s probably never going to be a pink pill
  • 3. Women haven’t developed a very thorough knowledge of their own bodies
  • 4. Desire for sex is very sensitive to context
  • 5. There’s a dual control model of sexual response
  • 6. If we want to change the “ons” and “offs,” we have to relearn
  • 7. There are ways to treat pain during sex


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About the Author

Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College, where she teaches Women’s Sexuality. She has a PhD in health behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University, and a master’s degree in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. She is the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are and The Come As You Are Workbook as well as three guides for Ian Kerner’s, including the Guide to Female Orgasm, and her own blog, The Dirty Normal.