Playing Well With Others


An unprecedented guidebook explaining the community aspect of the kink lifestyle. Other books explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, but this is the first book that explains kink culture — the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.

  • You’ll learn to:
  • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires.
  • Ease your way into established communities.
  • Understand etiquette in different sex communities.
  • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory.
  • Negotiate for play and aftercare.
  • Go back to the ‘world at large’ without ruffling feathers

…and, of course, answer the all-important question: What to wear?! Harrington and Williams, with 30+ years of experience in diverse kink communities, are a winning pair of wise sexual sherpas.

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About Lee Harrington

Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on human erotic and sacred experience. He is a nice guy with a disarmingly down to earth approach to the fact that we are each beautifully complex ecosystems, and we deserve to examine the human experience from that lens. He’s been traveling the globe (from Seattle to Sydney, Berlin to Boston), teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith, desire and more, and is grateful for the journeys and love he has found along the way. He has been an academic and a female adult film performer, a world class sexual adventurer, an outspoken philosopher, is a kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirituality since 1998.
We love you Lee!