An unprecedented guidebook explaining the community aspect of the kink lifestyle. Other books explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, but this is the first book that explains kink culture — the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.

• You’ll learn to:
• Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires.
• Ease your way into established communities.
• Understand etiquette in different sex communities.
• Care for your relationships as you explore new territory.
• Negotiate for play and aftercare.
• Go back to the ‘world at large’ without ruffling feathers

…and, of course, answer the all-important question: What to wear?! Harrington and Williams, with 30+ years of experience in diverse kink communities, are a winning pair of wise sexual sherpas.